What are some things that annoy you when you are getting
service in a dine-in non-fast food restaurant? Servers, why do you do some of
these things and why do you think they will help your tip? Why do you think you
aren't at fault if something you can easily tell IS your fault? What ones you
agree with, what ones you don't and WHY? If you don't agree with it, WHY? If
you do agree with it, tell me why.
Some of mine are as follows:
1. When you ask your server for your check, they ask you if
you want dessert as if you didn't just answer their question already. I think that's irritating personally. I know they have to upsell, but if the
customer has told their server they want their check, then asking them about
dessert makes no sense since they are already stating they are full and/or they
want to leave by requesting the bill.
It's just wasting time and we have taken off the tip some for it just
because they didn't LISTEN to what we said.
It's just simple common courtesy that if you ask for something, don't
2nd guess the customer unless it's something you are unsure of such as a
specific order that let's say they normally order such-n-such, but say
something different, maybe then may want to make sure or if they aren't
specific when ordering even if they have been there the first time or something
or if you are confused I can understand asking, but how is "Can we get our
check please" somehow "confusing", huh? It's just something that irritates me. Why would I ask for my check if I was still hungry????????
If I happen to change my mind, I will pay more in the tip for your
extra trouble of ringing up a new check and bringing it to me. I have
done that before when I changed my mind and decided to get something
else after I have paid already. I left $3 for a margarita because I made
the server do double work when normally if I was just sitting at the
bar, I would have left a dollar or two at most for that one drink.
2. When your server leaves BEFORE you get a CHANCE to ask
for everything you want and/or only ask ONE person, not EVERYONE if they need
something? I am so TIRED of servers doing this. I am trying so HARD not to run
my server, but most of them seem to lazy to get out their pad and pen, but then
complain "they ran me" on the internet about it, it's like gee, if
you would have been ready to take down a list of things I could have told you
all in ONE trip and could have gotten everything or mostly everything in one trip. Also, it slows the customer down lots when
servers do this, because now I have to wait until you are basically cutting now
attending to another customer before I can ask for what I ORIGINALLY wanted
wayyyyy before it was that customer's turn and then have to wait AGAIN after
you getting what those customers need before I can get what I originally wanted
in the first place, so at times it can take 5 minutes or more purely wasted for
no reason, which is not counting the extra time spent with the unnecessary
trips they made. Especially, if it's taking 4 people's food orders that the
people are asking questions and modifying things that you could be there 10
minutes waiting to get a bag or a box, seriously. Who wants to do that?
3. When your server doesn't do as you asked. You ask for a
box, they bring you a bag. You ask for a to-go coke, they bring you an empty
cup to pour your coke into. Basically, not
LISTENING to you, similar in a way to #1.
I don't understand why they don't do as you ask? Don't they want you to
be satisfied, so you can satisfy them with a nice big tip? Why the CONTROL that
they feel they have to get what THEY want or what they THINK you want?
4. Servers that decide everything for you without *ASKING
YOUR PERMISSION FIRST BEFORE DOING THE THINGS*. Things such as the check without asking
first not even offering you dessert at times even, refills without asking
first, water without asking, etc. Why
can't *WE* decide what *WE* want for *OUR TIP MONEY*, huh? You control freak
servers, please explain why we have to have things YOUR WAY when you want
*****OUR MONEY*******, huh? Wouldn't it make sense that everything should be to
please US since you want ****OUR MONEY***, huh? I have even ordered a bar drink
AFTER a dessert even because at the time I ordered dessert I was still drinking
the bar drink I had and wasn't ready to order another one at the time. We were given the check that time and I had
to give it back to the waiter. HOW
IRRITATING, I mean WHY the CONTROL? WHY NOT JUST SIMPLY FREAKING
"((((((((((ASK)))))))))))))))))", really how HARD IS THIS, HUH? I
have even ordered things to-go before at the end of our meal. You have no idea if the customers are ready
for their check or not. We have even decided to not get anything else because
of servers that want to rush you out by giving you the check without your
personal permission to do so. It's OUR
MONEY, OUR DECISION of how we want the service ran. As the customer, if you want your server to rule your service, **********TELL THEM THIS**************. They can't read your mind.
As a customer I don't have to tell my server "Please don't order for
me", because DUH, they aren't supposed to be ordering for me since DUH I
am the customer that I get a menu and get asked what I want for a REAL REASON as well as *I* am the person *PAYING* the tip, NOT THEM!
5. Servers pour new iced tea into old iced tea that's
watered down. If I wanted a glass of
watery tea, I'd be home. It's not iced
tea anymore if it's mostly water, is it?
6. Making comments about what you have ordered or how much
you have ordered. I just recently had a
waitress comment about because I ordered something to-go about "I was
going to say, you can eat", because I ordered something before I had a
chance to say to-go. It hurt my feelings
and she got a lowered tip because of it. You don't tell your customers about
portion sizes. No one wants to hear they ate too much or ordering too
much. Also, to-go orders are sometimes
for other people as well. Two servers have said "Are you taste testing"
just because I switched margaritas from one that was orange flavored to a
regular one. That's just nosy and mean.
WHY would a server ask such a thing? I just don't get it? If I were to
"taste test" I would have not drank my first one and sent it back,
would have I? I mean really, that's just mean.
WHY are you servers that do this WHY you think that's nice? Do you think
that will improve your tip or hurt your tip by commenting about someone's
orders? I had a waiter once said "You must really like the pulled pork don't
ya" just because I ordered pulled pork nachos, then for my entrée, I
ordered the pulled pork sandwich. It's
like while he might have been trying to make friendly conversation, it hurt my
feelings that he was commenting on my ordering.
Like what's it to this STRANGER to act like it's strange. Pointing out odd
things IS making fun of people. That's what making fun of people is, pointing
out the odd things they do that most people don't do. So in my eyes, he was in a way, making fun of
me, to point out something *ODD* that doesn't happen often. He got a slight decrease in his tip because
he decided to comment on my ordering. I don't understand WHY you servers do
this? If you don't know the customer, you really shouldn't comment about
people's ordering, whether they order certain items or certain items certain
ways, etc. What does it matter if I
order both food the same item? I mean really, to me, he was a jerk to say
that. I wouldn't dare point out
something odd to someone that I wanted money from. No way, because to me,
that's a form of making fun of the customer in a way.
7. Servers that blame
someone or something else for their mistake.
Many times my husband and I have had servers blame the kitchen staff or
have had servers blame objects(the menu or computer) for wrong prices) when
they can read too, not just us. I am
just SICK of the servers not being honest. Do you servers out there think your
tip will improve to LIE when it's OBVIOUS WHO is at fault such as bringing me
the completely wrong food when you took my order doesn't have anything to do
with the kitchen once you brought me the wrong item. YOU brought me the wrong
item, *YOU* are at fault for that part.
While yes, you may have put in the order correctly, you still have to "SERVE" it as correctly as you can notice with your EYES without touching
the food by comparing the written order with the food. If you didn't write down
my order, you can't complain when you get a bad tip you didn't put in my order
correctly or you didn't have a way to verify the food because the order was put
in wrong.
8. Servers that don't write orders down. You come back to the table have to ask me
again what I already told you, then do you think you will get a good tip for
being lazy? Also, by not writing it down, you have NO WAY of verifying what I
originally told you if you end up putting the order in wrong into the
computer. We had a waiter that admitted
"I PRESSED THE WRONG BUTTON" when he brought me quesadillas instead
of bbq chicken nachos. He wrote the
order down, but "pressed the wrong button." He did 2 mistakes by
not
putting in the order correctly and not serving it obviously correct,
which honestly, only putting in the order wrong was a real mistake, the
other was intentional not to check over what he was serving us. That's
just deciding not to study for a test. It's just being lazy. Mistakes
aren't intentional, but that was in the sense of that he didn't want to
do any *WORK* for his money.
9. Servers not doing things in the order in which they came
in. So you ask your server for your
check waiting patiently to pay and leave. Your server goes to 3 other tables,
even gets their stuff such as refills for example, you are STILL waiting to get
your check even. By doing things out of
order, you are basically making that first person wait WAYYY LONGER and hurting
YOURSELF as the server. Smart servers
want to "turn and burn" tables to make more money, so this makes no
sense, yet servers will do this at times.
Once, we waited 17 minutes to pay, needless to say we left nothing. I
mean really, when you keep serving everyone else, ignore one of your tables,
what do you expect? You should expect to get what you did to us. Cutting is
morally wrong, so is not tipping for good service, but when it's bad service,
you should get the tip as to how they treated you.
10. Servers not returning all of your change(coin
change). Now my husband and I don't pay
with cash very often, but once we paid with (2) $20 gift certificates, only got
a $5 bill back on $34.69, rather than $5.31. While I understand servers don't
have a register(they have a change bank or go to the bar), shorting the
customer even a penny is STEALING. He
could have given over the amount if he was too lazy to bring change on him or
go to the bar such as 2 quarters or even gave $6(which means he would have
forfeited his own 69 cents by doing so, but wouldn't have stolen by doing
that). By not returning 31 cents, that
was done on purpose. It wasn't like it was an accident, this was 100% ON
PURPOSE, because there's NO WAY it's possible to miss THREE coins on a party of
2 check when 99.9% of the time checks aren't exact dollar amounts with no coin
change and most of the time customers don't pay exactly the amount they owe
either with they pay with cash or in my case gift certificates. If it was an
accident is one thing, but this was his laziness and feeling so ENTITLED is
what this was as well as VERY SELFISH too.
He cared about his 69 cents to not give us $6 in change back, so why our
31 cents wasn't JUST AS IMPORTANT as his CENTS? Servers think we have to BOW
DOWN to their money like it's holier than thou. What I did was I went up to him
to get the 31 cents asked where the rest of the change was. He did say he was "sorry", not a
"so sorry" and he made sure he only gave 31 cents rather than if I
would have done that(I wouldn't have EVER), I would have at least given the
person 50 cents for their extra time and trouble, to only forfeit himself 19
cents, but he decided to be a SELFISH person, so he got NOTHING at all and a
REPORT to a manager for STEALING. This
is ILLEGAL SERVERS. If you want to give over YOUR OWN MONEY(not the business's
money), that's you, which if he would have given $6 in change, he would have
had a much bigger tip just because he would have given us no coins to deal with
and giving us more than what we owed, but to take it from us to TIP HIMSELF is
ILLEGAL. You servers can't LEGALLY TIP
YOURSELVES. You have to wait until the customer says to keep it or they leave
it for you. You don't get to just take
it. I made 100% sure he didn't get ONE
PENNY of tip. He stole, we stole his
tip, but the difference is what we did was VERY 100% LEGAL, what he did WAS NOT
LEGAL. What we did was really not
stealing. We did what he did to us. Also, instead of just going to get the
coins when I told him, he was such a jerk that he went to serve a side salad
first which was CUTTING IN FRONT OF *OUR TURN* since originally our turn was a
long time ago when we got the change. He
was such a jerk. I can't believe servers
are this entitled and selfish these days they are willing to STEAL(tip themselves)
and be so lazy. Bring some rolls of
coins on you or bring a bag or purse with coins that you can lock up or
something if you don't want to go to the bar.
OR as I said, give OVER the amount.
Most of the time, customers will much more appreciate that to give you
much more than if you act so selfish about CENTS. Risking not getting 69 cents was it worth
getting stiffed and a report to the manager for doing something ILLEGAL. If you want to steal, you should go to
jail. I can't go take a penny out of a
register at a store or take a penny out of someone's purse, why should you
servers be able to do this and think you can get away with it, huh?
11. Servers that don't know the menu. If I know more about the menu than my server
does, I have a huge problem with that. Don't look dingy. Study some at home. The way I for example
learned how to type wasn't in class. I had to practice at home hours and hours
to learn it. Anything in life takes
EFFORT. I know servers may not know
everything but you can learn by when someone does order something, the order
comes out, you can compare the menu description to what's on the plate and the
written order so that way you will learn the menu by repetition.
12. Servers that take your glass when you are in the middle
of eating rather than getting you a new refill.
Servers out there, think about when you are eating how you feel if
someone just RIPS your glass away and then think about how you get called over
at other tables how long this table you just took away their glasses how long
they are waiting or even let's say you have to change the syrup or make new
iced tea, etc. Let the customer at least keep the little bit that's left or ice
until you get them their new glass of drink. It's just about being CONSIDERATE!
13. Servers that bring out obvious mistakes when they don't
compare their written orders or tickets to the food. No EFFORT is the issue
here. You don't even "CARE"
about what you doing, then why should I care about your tip as much?
Fries
aren't onion rings but yet our own server at Denny's brought me this in
only a
party of 2. I mean really, I saw it was wrong on the TRAY even. This was
no
mistake when they have many onion rings on the plate unlike missing one
side of ranch, this was a full side of the plate with onion rings,
PLENTY of them. She didn't care and was
too lazy to verify her written order with the food BEFORE she left the kitchen.
14. Servers that put in their opinions into your order when
all you want to do is place your order. If I know what I want exactly, don't
try to convince me you know what I want. I already had 2 servers tell me
"You know it's not a big salad" when I ordered 4 sides of ranch for a
side salad. What happened was, I also was ordering other items that I wanted to
dip the ranch in as well, so I just decided to order all the ranch at once not
to make it confusing. The servers shouldn't have put THEIR OPINIONS into MY
ORDER. JUST TAKE THE DAMN ORDER AND GO WITH IT UNLESS YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND WHAT
I HAVE SAID!! I found both salads to be pretty big side salads if you ask me.
15. Servers that don't write down parts of orders, only
some, but not all. If you expect a good tip, you need *ALL* the details. Lots
of times when servers are deciding not
to write down the condiments part, they forget them. Servers should be
writing down EVERY SINGLE THING. Not one is perfect, so why act like you
are?
16. Not bringing the amount that was asked for. While I understand managers may not let you
fill the containers, ordering more than what the customer asked for in the
computer to ADD UP to the amount even if you have to add it to someone else's
order on the side should be done.
Meaning, I am so sick of servers that are bringing me less than half a
container of mayo when I ordered 2. At times I barely have an entire side. If
the customer ordered 2 or more, they obviously want A LOT. Not getting the customer's order correct is
not going to get you a good tip since this is OBVIOUS if a container is not
filled or not and even if someone else brings out the food, the
original server
can always bring condiments out before the food is ready since it needs
no
cooking or prepare time other than to pour it into ramekins and some
give you
already poured ones that are used for to-go orders. If I were a server,
I'd
ring in 4 mayos for the customers 2 mayos to make sure I gave them the
amount
they truly ordered. Even if I'd have to put it under another customer, I
would
do so to get the customer's order correct. I would make sure I'd get a
good tip despite the manager's wanting to not give away a lot of the
condiment.
17. Servers that don't take "NO" for an answer
trying to convince you to get a dessert for example. That's aggravating. We had a waitress once that was like "Aw
come on" it's like how irritating.
18. Servers bring you the next closest thing instead of
asking you when they are out of something, basically called ORDERING FOR YOU
WITHOUT YOUR CONSENT just because they are out of something. Once, we had a waitress that assumed that
because they were out of raspberry topping for a cheesecake slice when we had
ordered dessert that she’d bring us strawberry. Turns out, she knew when she
put in the order that the computer had it the manager told us. So she did it on
PURPOSE to be so lazy and uncaring as to not come to ask if we wanted the next
closest thing. We didn’t, we sent it back, so she had MORE WORK. Also, she
didn’t even think about what if someone is allergic to strawberries. I just
honestly can’t believe someone would do that. If they are out of something, common
sense would be to come to see if the next closest thing is ok. Not everyone
wants the next closest thing. So it wasn’t like it was just getting the order
wrong by accident or by not verifying the written order with what she was
bringing or putting in the order wrong by accident, this was on PURPOSE to be
LAZY and to ASSUME. I didn’t know at first that she did that. I thought at
first she just was that stupid(or truly just messed up(highly doubt it)) to
bring us strawberries on top of a cheesecake when we ordered raspberries. Have
some COMMON DECENCY to act like we are human that we may not like the item or
don't want that item or could even be allergic.
Don't place an order for us. It's
not your right to do so.
19. Servers that you don't know start trying to make a
conversation with you BEFORE you get to place your order. Common sense would be WE ARE HUNGRY AND
THIRSTY, please LET US ORDER!! Sometimes people are on their lunch break, have
just waited an HOUR for a table, are just really hungry, etc. Act like this is YOU if you haven't eaten all
day. Here's a good example: Once, we had a waiter that we didn’t know
after waiting 15 mins. for a table on Mardi Gras day ask us BEFORE we ORDERED
ANYTHING “How’s y’all’s Mardi Gras” “Go to any parades?” See, I don’t mind chit
chat with a stranger, but be considerate to do it AFTER we have our orders into
the computer so you don’t take up our time. It's just a little of being
CONSIDERATE. Servers want to blame the
kitchen staff, but if you don't LET US ORDER, HOW is it NOT YOUR FAULT we are
waiting longer for our food and drinks if you do this type of thing, huh?
Asking how are you doing is one thing, that's a one answer question, but not
all of that.
20. Servers that ask you to remind them when you have
modifications like adding some condiments.
If you are too lazy to do the job, DON'T BE A SERVER THEN. If I have to remind you, do you HONESTLY
THINK you will or even deserve a good tip if you aren't willing to **********TRY******************
at least? Asking this is not willing to try. I have had some servers do this.
Once, at Applebee's, I only ordered a side of mexi ranch and a side of pico de
gallo. The waitress was like "You might have to remind me." I went
off on her telling her "This is not McDonald's that you are getting a tip
that you compare your written order with the food BEFORE you bring it out"
and "You can bring it out ahead of time if you'd like.” This is RIDICULOUS. If you aren't willing to
*****WORK******* for your money, WTH are you at this type of job, huh? I mean 2
condiment type of items and you can't get only 2 right without your customer's
help which they aren't supposed to have to do, WTH???? I told her off and
reported her to a manager. You don't DARE make your customer do work when you
want someone to pay you voluntarily. The
customer isn't supposed to have to do work. Reminding you is a pain that no one
wants to have to do and only wants to have to if the server really truly TRIED
their best, but she wasn't WILLING to try is what truly pisses me off about
this. I mean really. 2 containers of stuff and it was too much for her, WOW how
lazy is all I have to say.
21. Other servers/food runners that don't work as a team that
deliver food to your table. You ask the
person that runs the food that isn't your server for a refill or something that
is wrong with your food, they say "Your server will get that", not
even tell your server or if they do, they don't fix the issue that they could
have to work as a team member. We have
had our fair share of jerk lazy servers like that such as a waitress that said
"Your server will get it" when I asked for a refill. She NEVER told our waiter. Our waiter got 12% because of it. WHY? She was part of my service that was
poor. If she would have gotten the tip
shared(which the waiter SHOULD be willing to pay that person that is running
our food to us), then maybe they would have had some INCENTIVE to get the
refill. By getting no extra payment that isn't automatic like a tip out, then
you have no incentive to give this other server to care about your tip. That co-worker waitress didn't care about
that waiter's tip. I don't blame her per
say since he wasn't probably sharing his tip with her. You expect teamwork, you have to share the
tip with your helpers.
22. I HATE when servers assume you don't want the condiment
the food comes with when you order an extra condiment with the food, basically
not knowing the menu good enough, just ASSUMING everyone wants the same things
in this world. If I order bbq sauce with chicken tenders that ON THE MENU state
the chicken tenders come with honey mustard, I am ALREADY ORDERING AND PAYING
for that honey mustard in the price of the item, so unless I substitute bbq
sauce for the honey mustard or say I don't want the honey mustard, there's
NEVER a reason to assume I don't want the condiment the item comes with. So a
customer can't like many condiments or that one person at the table may like one
sauce, the other person likes another? It's an addition if the customer doesn't
state they are substituting or they don't want it. Also, a lot of restaurants
don't even charge for extra condiments, so does it matter if you give the
person the bbq sauce and the honey mustard when they are paying for the honey
mustard in the price of the item, which the bbq sauce is free if the restaurant
doesn't charge for extra condiments. If the restaurant does require to charge
for extra, that's ONLY when you'd ask "Did you want both sauces" since they
may mean they want to substitute and just don't know how to order or didn't
read the menu description all the way or just plain don't know how to
order?" You would also tell the customer you are required to charge for
extra condiments if you are required to so they won't be mad when bill time
comes.
23. Auctioning off
drinks and/or food when YOUR server is the one that took the order. (such as "WHO HAD THE COKE, WHO HAD THE
SPRITE, etc.") The servers should be going down the line from a starting
point and make sure the food goes in front of the correct person. The only way
the server has a good excuse to mess up on this is if the customers switched
spots, because then I could see not knowing, but most servers are TOO LAZY
today to compare their written orders to what is in their hands, the plates of
food or glasses of drinks. Once, I had a waitress in a party of 4 auction off
drinks. I was like, how stupid and lazy can she be? FOUR drinks, when she WROTE
them down even as to how lazy she was to make us state who had what drink.
That's not our job, that's our server's job.
An example: Top 2 people from left to right had first person had a coke,
2nd person had a dr. pepper, 3rd person bottom row first person in that row had
a water with lemon, 4th person had an iced tea with extra lemon. It's not that difficult to not make your
customers do work for you. If you took the order, you should KNOW 100% what
they ordered UNLESS they switch seats. You should be WRITING the orders down so
you can know what they had and who had what WITHOUT asking them to do your job
for you by repeating the orders. You
asked them, making them repeat it is lazy, LAZY, LAZY, LAZY, LAZY, LAZY!!
24. I HATE when servers assume just because you ordered a
margarita the first time, that automatically means you want the same thing
again. 2 times this has happened. Once,
my husband had told a server I wanted another drink since she was handing us
the check before I could say something and she assumed I wanted the same drink,
which I wanted a white russian instead of a long island iced tea. Stop going by
majority. You should go to each table acting like everyone is different,
because everyone IS different. Not everyone wants the same things in their
service. Some people want to be left alone while others want to chit chat with
their server for example. Some people want their check right away, others don't
feel rushed. The thing with the check though is that to me if you want your check
right away, just ask when ordering your food to get it before your food comes
even. I mean really, that avoids being
offered a dessert if you are in a hurry. Don't make everyone else rushed
because you are in a rush. With wanting
your check faster than normal is a customer responsibility issue, not a server
issue.
25. NEVER
"ASSUME" ANYTHING, EVER! For example: My husband and I ordered 2
appetizers as well as 2 entrées at a restaurant. I didn't want what he wanted
and he didn't want what I wanted, so that's why we ordered 2. We figured we
could take the food home if we had too much. The waiter ASSUMED I wanted the
appetizer with my meal. For starters, I NEVER ONCE said that. Also, I should
assume that since the menu states it's an appetizer, that I would get it as an
appetizer unless I state otherwise. We were waiting quite a while when the
waiter came around and we asked where my chili cheese fries were. Our waiter
replied “I thought you wanted it with your meal." I told him "I never
said that." I was SOME PISSED that he "ASSUMED" we were going to
"share" the first appetizer. Anyway, I received it 2 minutes
literally before our entrées came out. Go by the *MENU* that if something is
labeled "appetizer", unless otherwise stated, that's how the customer
wants it. If they wanted it with their
meal, THEN that's when you would serve it that way. NEVER go by majority EVER,
EVER, EVER, EVER! NOT EVERYONE SHARES APPETIZERS ALL THE TIME!
26. Not delivering non-bar drinks when the server has time
to BEFORE bar drinks. WHY should I have
to wait 10 minutes to get a coke or water or iced tea because someone at my
table orders a pina colada? You can ask them if they would like a water with
it, that way if they do, you can serve the same drinks at the same time AND
come to get our appetizer order or entrée order if we are ready quicker. It's
not fun when I am sitting there waiting 10 minutes because the keg had to get
switched for my dr. pepper because my husband ordered a beer and having to wait
longer to even order any food. The faster
you get our order if we are ready, the more customers you have to make more
money, so it's in your favor to at least bring out what you can. If it appears
we need more time like you can tell by body language, then just bring us
drinks, that way we have something to sip on while we are deciding. Servers out
there don't you realize the LONGER we are waiting to order, the LESS MONEY you
make since we are at that table LONGER? I mean really. Some people may not want to order at that time yet, but you
don't know until you go to their table that they may want to order something or
not.
27. Not having common sense such as places where they give
you free bread or chips n' salsa not when greeted like after you give them your
drink orders that they bring the bread or chips n' salsa out BEFORE what you
DID order. I would like my drink. First
off, COMMON SENSE salsa is spicy most of the time, so DUH, I want SOMETHING to
wash it down with. Two, bread is thick and would be nice to have something to
wash it down with. Three, I want what I order before what I don't order. I mean if you greet with it that's different,
but not after you took my order. A good example, a waiter at On the Border took
our drink orders, decided to bring the chips n' salsa out BEFORE our soft
drinks. WHY? WHY not bring it out altogether or bring the drinks first out? Why not satisfy the *CUSTOMER* if you want their money FIRST? I
want my drink first, I am thirsty.
Eating food without any water or anything can make someone choke. That's
not a good thing. It's also in my eyes
the waiter was STUPID. I mean, WHY would you serve me food without anything to
drink if you didn't greet me with food? He was a MORON DINGY IDIOT in my opinion. I mean I know they do it when you get
greeted, but if you get to order your drinks, WHY would you want to have food
first before what you DID want that you actually PLACED A REAL ORDER FOR, HUH? If you do want food first,
then as the customer *YOU* should SPEAK UP and ask "Can you bring out the
chips n' salsa" first out for example.
Most servers would and probably do bring out both at the same time to
make one trip.
28. Not being OBSERVANT such as serving you food without
utensils and not asking if you want a refill when your drink is near empty. LOTS of times dumb dingy servers don't act
like the customer like serving you food with no way to eat it or not asking you
if you want any more drink when you have an empty glass or giving you a cold
container of bbq sauce when you know that should be served warm when you can
feel the container it's cold as the refrigerator. I will go over that one in #47 about the bbq sauce thing.
29. Not apologizing for their mistakes. You want the customer to give you more, be
nice enough to apologize. You can't expect as much forgiveness or maybe any
forgiveness if you are not apologetic and are mean about the issue if it's 100%
OBVIOUS *YOU* are at fault.
30. Overcharges in restaurants. Servers just seem to not care these days
about if they are charging you correctly. I don't mean mistakes, I mean such as
we have had wrong prices on the check where we saw the servers not checking the
menu prices against the check they made us do it or times where the server has
all the time in the world to doodle on the check drawing stupid smiley faces,
writing "thank you" to get a higher tip(meaning ONLY BEING CONCERNED
ONLY ABOUT THEIR money ONLY), but no time to check over the check. That
happened at Outback where the waitress wrote all of that crap wrote her name,
"thank you", etc., but charged us for a $3.25 shot for a table in the
back of us. She thought spending time
doodling(just caring about HER MONEY ONLY) was more important than not overcharging
her customers. Needless to say she didn't get a tip. WHY? It's not mistake when you have LOTS of
time to play around like that and shows how SELFISH the server is only caring
about their money, because they are doing it for tip points. If you think that's
more important than charging the customer correctly, then I hope someone
overcharges you and not care see how *YOU* feel then. It's not just about the money, it's also about the TIME LOSS for the customers and the server. Not only is it more money the business makes,
but it also makes the server's tip go up by adding more money to the tip by the
higher check amount so the server is winning in an overcharge situation as well
when a customer doesn't notice this and it makes more time at the table for the
customer which for both the server and the customer is not good. We have had MANY overcharges over the years.
Some we have tipped, some we haven't. It depends on HOW they handled the
situations. The waitress at Outback wasn't good otherwise as well like every
time we asked for something, she'd make us wait for her to get her 2 other
table's orders before we got our items we asked for(refills, things like that,
that she could get).
30. The server brings out VERY OBVIOUS mistakes to the table
such as a wrong side dish or a missing side of ranch that's not there. I know
we ALL make mistakes, but I feel 99.9% of the times it's because they didn't
compare the written order to the plate of food BEFORE they brought the food
out. If another server is bringing out my food, my server could have brought
the ranch I asked for ahead of time and not waited for someone that isn't going
to get tipped by me that doesn't care and won't read the ticket to actually get
the order right to me the first time around.
31. Gets your dirty dishes first BEFORE going to get
something you asked for such as your check when you want your check. Common sense I want to leave,
so get what I
do want before worrying about clean up work. There's no "hands full in,
hands full out" rule to follow since you aren't going to the kitchen if
you don't have to go into the kitchen to get me my check that's on the
computer
in the dining area for example. It's a WIN, WIN so you can make more
money by having other customers sit where I am sitting just THAT MUCH
FASTER.
32. Ask if you have been there before? (Especially if you have, it's irritating and
a time waster). Similar to #19, basically spending time you don't REALLY NEED
to do. WHO CARES if I have been there or not? The times we have been there the
first time, I ask questions and have told servers before. Don't punish the
regular's time to have to sit through wasting TIME for them by having to answer
this question, especially if they are on their lunch break or need to be
somewhere quickly, or just plain hungry, I mean really it's just VERY
INCONSIDERATE of people's hunger, thirst, and time.
33. Servers that assume things such as bringing a ketchup
bottle when you didn't ask for one that everyone likes ketchup when they could
have just simply asked you. If the ketchup is not on the table, you should ask.
WHY put more things on the table that I don't need or want? Same thing with
water. If I truly wanted water, I would
have just simply ORDERED a water like a GROWN RESPONSIBLE ADULT would.
34. Servers that don't write down request of any kind, then
forget something. I am so sick of
servers not writing down the things that aren't food request and then
FORGETTING them. A good example, I asked
for a to-go box, a bag, a coke to-go, and the check. That's only 4 things, but
a waitress actually forgot the bag. She didn't take any EFFORT to remember it.
If you write it down, most of the time, you won't forget. Another time, I asked our waiter for a
refill, some more bread, and extra napkins. He forgets the extra napkins and of
course didn't bother to WRITE those request down. That's just a couple of
examples of MANY over the years. If you expect to remember something, you need
to WRITE IT DOWN and be willing to REREAD the list.
35. I HATE when servers assume when you ask for a box, that
automatically means CHECK TIME. This one goes with a couple of other ones #4
and #25. LOTS of times we asked for a box to MAKE ROOM for dessert and save the
leftovers for the next day. To not even offer us dessert is just stupid on
their part, because the more they sell to increase the check, the higher the
tip can be. It's to their advantage to at least OFFER the dessert as long as I
didn't ask for the check of course. WHY ASSUME is the question? Asking for a
box doesn't always mean you are full. I
could order an afterdinner drink or a to-go order or a dessert, or even have a coupon etc. DON'T
ASSUME!
36. Servers that when let's say you say you want your check,
instead of getting the check, they get all the dirty dishes. While that's good and all, when I want to
leave I appreciate that extra time I am watching the server stack the dirty
dishes and having to wait for them to go to the kitchen to drop them off I
could have been READING my bill during that time, NOT watching them wasting my
time. It's just about being CONSIDERATE. If someone asks for something, I would
do that and then COME BACK to grab the dishes as they are reading their check. I'd hand them their check to their hands if
the dirty dishes are taking up their entire table if I were a server. It's just
like if I want a refill, a dessert, and my check. While I do want my dirty
dishes taken, I sure do want my dessert, refill, and my check as quickly as
possible. There's no reason to delay me
to clean up unless I *ASK* you to do so. Just
go put the order in,
get my refill, and get my check. THEN pick up the dirty dishes. I for
sure if I have no coke at all, I sure the hell want my damn coke NOW,
NOT watch you pick up dishes on my table and stack them. SERIOUSLY,
that's RETARDED! Saves time for the customer doing it the way I say, makes you the
server have more money since I will be leaving that much quicker since you put
my order in that much quicker. It's a WIN-WIN for BOTH of us.
37. Servers that just don't know how to take an order. Such as you say you only want cheddar
cheese, lettuce, and onions only on a chicken sandwich that comes with on the
menu lettuce, tomatoes, pickles, and mixed cheese, but they actually ring it in
as extra cheese(adding cheese) when you were just substituting cheese, not
saying you wanted extra cheese, which means they put in the order wrong as well
as overcharged you. You have to go by the CUSTOMER & THE MENU DESCRIPTION.
This goes along with #22. If the menu has it comes with something, then you
should already know that. If in doubt, ASK. Don't assume.
38. Servers that when you ask for your check and a dessert,
they wait until you are in the MIDDLE of eating your dessert to finally bring
the check when they could have BEFORE the dessert arrived. If the customer has asked for something, WHY NOT get what you can? That doesn't mean they have to pay
because they got their check, does it? Seriously, why waste the customer's time
like that on PURPOSE and make them either interrupt their eating their dessert
or make them wait until after eating their dessert to be able to read their
check? WHY do that? If the customer orders a dessert, that's when you ask if
that will be all, because the customer may want to order something else like an
afterdinner drink or something else even.
39. Servers that ask the faster eater "Do you want
dessert" when the other people or person at the table are still eating
their entrées. Usually customers eat
courses together and usually(not all the time), but my point is USUALLY, so since most customers share desserts or at least eat courses TOGETHER in general,
therefore, WHY rush the slower eater that is still eating their entrée? How
does that person that is the slower eater going to know yet if they are going
to want a dessert if they are still eating their entrée? This is just
IRRITATING and it's making the customer feel SO RUSHED. WHY would you want to do that?
40. Server delivers water with the lemon inside the water or
tea instead of on the edge of the rim of the glass. Common sense no one wants
seeds in their glass, do they? Servers should not even serve water with lemon
or iced tea with lemon unless they ASK first.
41. Server tries to change your entire order instead of
LISTENING to what you have said. So one
day I asked this waitress for a certain margarita that was an orange flavored
margarita, she tells me "We have our top shelf margarita for $7",
which is not the same it's a regular margarita that is usually served frozen
even, not on the rocks. So she got a
lowered tip for doing that. If you want to upsell, DO IT **BEFORE*** I order
like other servers have done when they greet you they may say "Can I start
you all off with a top shelf margarita or some southwestern eggrolls?"
You can upsell BEFORE I place my order, don't have to after.
42. Servers that make too much conversation about what they
recommend personally instead of just letting you place your order. I don't give a care what my server likes if I
already know what I do like. If I want their opinion, that's when I ask.
Otherwise, it's wasting lots of time for all the server's customers, not just
my party. Especially if you have ordered this item a zillion times. It's like
WHO CARES if you think it's YOUR favorite? I don't give a care. SO WHAT? That’s wasting time that I could be
getting my order. You servers talk about
how it's the kitchen staff's fault for long waits; this is similar to #19. The
longer you take to get my order, the longer I sit.
43. #42's point is part of this one that if you don't come
to get my order, I can't get my order in a timely manner. Here's an example: Once, we had a waitress
that greeted us which we ordered an appetizer as well as our drinks when
greeted. I saw she tucking in chairs at empty tables and pretty much doing
everything but coming back to get our entrée order. Well, I found out what
happened. She brought out our appetizer and when I asked she said that she
wanted to wait to put in our entrée orders. The thing is, that delayed us more
by not at least coming to GET our orders. That way, when the appetizer was
ready, we wouldn’t have gotten delayed eating our appetizer since we then had
to give our entrée orders when we could have given our entrée orders WELL
BEFORE THAT and we would have gotten our entrées faster due to that she could
have just left to put our entrée orders into the computer after delivering our
appetizer instead of taking time to order when our appetizer was sitting in
front of us. The point is, SHE delayed our entrées as well as to be able to
start eating our appetizer because she could have at least TAKEN our entrée
orders and then when our appetizer would have been brought out, could have
immediately gone to the computer to put our entrée orders in. What she did was make us wait while our hot
appetizer was sitting in front of us, we couldn’t touch it, because we had to
order our entrées and could have done that wayyy before that. She also delayed
our entrées because we had to spend extra time AFTER our appetizer arrived to
give her our entrée orders when we could have done that wayyyy before that. If
you want to make the most money, you have to let us order so we can get our
food faster, DUHHHH! If you do like that waitress did, *YOU* are causing our
entrée orders to get delayed, not the kitchen staff.
44. Servers that put their pen and pad away BEFORE you are
finished ordering assuming that's all. WHY do that instead of just saying "Is that
all" or letting the customer finish ordering? That's just like #2.
45. I HATE when servers assume when you want your side salad
or cup of soup when you also order an appetizer. Once, I had a waiter assume I wanted my side
salad AFTER the appetizer, which I would have wanted it before or at least with
the appetizer, because my husband was eating 98% of the appetizer, I wasn't.
This was at Outback. He could have ASKED which one I wanted first. I
automatically thought since I had salads very quickly there before and the side
salads need NO COOKING, that mine would be out first. Especially since, I have
been to a restaurant after that(Macaroni Grill) and had my side salad right
away without the waiter asking or me telling him when I wanted my side salad
when my husband ordered an appetizer as well. In the Outback situation, the
other server that ran my food told me I would have had to tell my server when I
wanted it. I was like "WHAT, that makes no sense?" I feel it's the
SERVER'S RESPONSIBILITY to find out WHEN someone wants what, because it was a
natural assumption as the CUSTOMER when at another restaurant I got my side salad before the
appetizer and most importantly, that side salads need NO COOKING TIME, which my
husband ordered the Bloomin' Onion which DOES require cooking at Outback.
Anyway, I don't think I was wrong in thinking that I'd get my side salad first
WITHOUT having to tell him. I think it should be common sense people want their
food as SOON as they can have it and if they want it later, THAT'S when the
customer should speak up when they want their food. I don't feel it was MY
responsibility to tell my server when I wanted it. I don't get WHY 2 different
restaurants, same scenario, different outcomes? I was at another restaurant
once, the side salads came AFTER the appetizer. I understand why they do that
in case you are still eating your side salad when the food is hot and ready
that they won't have to let your food get cold or sit under a heat lamp until
you are finished your salads, but how come Macaroni Grill didn't do things that
way? I finished my side salad WAYYYY BEFORE my husband's appetizer came at
Macaroni Grill. I have had a time I wanted a side salad with my meal, but I
TOLD my server that since side salads are served at appetizer times and get
this: THAT WAITRESS ACTUALLY HAD COMMON SENSE TO ASK FIRST!! This is similar to
#22 & #18. While I understand the side salad is not an appetizer, it still
can be done WELL BEFORE the appetizer, so why not ask your customer you servers
out there what order they would like those items in instead of guessing or
going by majority? I created a poll, this is a link with the results:
Appetizer or side salad first when dining in a restaurant if BOTH are ordered?
| Appetizer - Side salad I may be still eating | 11 | 39% | |
| Side Salad -DUH, because I am hungry | 6 | 21% | |
| I don't care either way | 6 | 21% | |
| Side salad served with your meal | 3 | 10% | |
| Appetizer and side salad at the same time | 2 | 7% | |
| Current Total | 28 | ||
Do you see not EVERYONE wanted to wait for their
side salad or how some had side salad with their meal or how some had side
salad at the same time as the appetizer or some wanted just like me to have their side salad BEFORE their appetizer?
46. Serving an appetizer without appetizer plates. Common sense, bring the appetizer plates
BEFORE the food comes out. I just had a
server yesterday that I was on the last one of the appetizer before she brought
the plates, I mean really, what was the point then? Act like YOU are the
customer.
47. Serving you sauce that is normally served warm COLD or ROOM TEMPERATURE. Think
about if *YOU* wouldn't eat that on your food, WHY would the customer? I
mean seriously. This is part of #28. I have had some dingy servers
serve COLD from the REFRIGERATOR bbq sauce when you can CLEARLY FEEL THE
CONTAINER IT IS COLD, NOT WARM. I don't expect them to stick their
finger in, I expect them to FEEL the container temperature to determine
if it's appropriate to serve that or not. Would YOU honestly eat cold
bbq sauce on warm ribs? If you wouldn't, WHY would you serve that to me?
LIKE DUH! Treat me like as if that were *YOU* eating the food.
48. If there are 2 for 1 bar drinks, that the server doesn't let you know when you place your order. I
remember the first time I had ordered a margarita at Chili's, the
waiter brought me 2 margaritas. If I would have known that I would have
said "Please let me have one at a time, because ice melts", I
mean really. Also, what about the person that has to drive that wasn't
thinking they'd have 2 bar drinks? It's just SOOO FREAKING
INCONSIDERATE! I mean who really wants both at the same time even beer
you could have it colder if you just have one at a time. I don't
understand why servers do this? It's like they don't act like the
customer. I was pretty pissed that first time, because I had to like sip
on both not to have one melt have a watery margarita for the next one.
Also, it's just INCONSIDERATE and a SURPRISE, which is not a nice
surprise if you a slow drinker. What wants a watery expensive drink or
even a watery coke even if the refills are free? Not everyone wants 2
for one. Maybe they only want one and even if you end up paying the
full price, it could be because of other reasons. WHY not save money for
your customer or the company by just serving ONE at a time? It's just
SOOO FREAKING INCONSIDERATE as I said above. I just don't understand
that?
49. Servers that question you about your order UNNECESSARILY. For example, I wanted a coke instead of a dr. pepper, so instead of just going to get it, the waiter wastes MY TIME and making me feel weird asking "Is there something wrong with it?" I just told him that I wanted to switch drinks and no to the question. I mean so someone can't SWITCH UP that I have to *EXPLAIN WHY*
I ORDER SOMETHING ELSE? I shouldn't have to. Just because something is
odd doesn't mean you should make the customer do your job or feel weird
for switching or have to explain(WASTE TIME) why they are deciding to
order something else. Your job is to find out if there is something
wrong by checking the syrup bags inside the box, NOT the customers to
tell you. If there was something wrong, I would have SAID SO and not
drank my drink, like DUH. I have done that in the past when I have been
served light soft drinks before that syrup needed to be changed, which
is something in #50 about that subject. No one should have to explain
why they are changing up something next they are ordering which is
similar to #24, #14, and #6. Quit interrogating customers with
stupid unnecessary questions. I just told the waiter "NO, I just want to
switch." It's AGGRAVATING having to do this. NO CUSTOMER SHOULD HAVE TO EXPLAIN WHY THEY ARE ORDERING SOMETHING! JUST TAKE THE ORDER AND GO!
Now one waitress said "You ordered a dr. pepper before right", which is
possibly she maybe was trying to help in case if I said the wrong
thing, but still, if I did, the refill is free anyway, so it really
doesn't matter and it would be my fault if I said it wrong, but why
would I say it wrong anyway? I mean really? That makes no sense to me. If someone does something out the ordinary, don't question them, just do what they want for *THEIR TIP MONEY*. SATISFY THEM PERSONALLY for that tip that you want from them PERSONALLY.
51. Doodling on the check. NO server should WASTE TIME DOING THIS, **EVER***! People want to LEAVE when they ask for their check.
52. When they don’t tell you they are out of something **BEFORE** you place your order? It’s SOOOOO VERY *****INCONSIDERATE********** to not think of people’s time, hunger, feelings, etc. There have been times we had gone places and just left, because we wanted what we wanted and they didn’t have it. I told a waitress once “We aren’t paying for these drinks considering you didn’t tell us they didn’t have these anymore?” It wasn’t that they were just out, they didn’t make any of the pizzas(they called them pies) like NONE of them they made anymore on the menu, like the entire part of the menu they didn’t make anymore. Also, it was a slow Sunday afternoon, hardly anyone in the restaurant and the waitress was too INCONSIDERATE of a human being to let us know when she greeted us that a good chunk of the menu wasn’t offered anymore. That’s just so mean. HOW would **YOU** feel is how you should serve! Wouldn’t you want your server to let you know your favorite dish you get a lot is no longer available even though the menu has it or they are out of it BEFORE you order anything? That’s just the MORALLY RIGHT THING to do and NOBODY seems to be nice these days to do it, NOBODY! SERVERS ARE ASSHOLES that do this shit! FUCKING INCONSIDERATE JERKS! Tell us BEFORE we order any drinks that they are out of something so that way you won’t waste your time getting drinks and waste resources as well. It’s not fair if we have to pay for drinks because you didn’t let us know. Now if you didn’t know until 3 minutes ago, fine, but this waitress knew they were not serving the pizza pies anymore ALL of them so that was just inexcusable and very assholeish. I told her “You needed to tell us this before we ordered anything.” We left. I told her “We aren’t paying for these drinks when you didn’t tell us we couldn’t get the pizzas and that’s why we came here for THAT.
53. Not giving you the ITEMIZED check back after they ring you up. It's MINE until I leave. If I leave it, so what you still have to buss the table anyways, so WHY return JUST my credit card receipt.? I LOWER the tip when I have to ask for it back. It's ridiculous, because some servers said that nobody keeps it, but most servers give it and we keep all of ours. It's still OUR RECEIPT, NOT the server's receipt to decide to throw it away. Service should NEVER go by majority EVER, because EVERYONE is DIFFERENT and NOT EVERYONE wants the same things, the same ways. Why would you not return it? As I said, someone still has to take our cups away, so it will be taken anyway by a busser or our server, so WHY do it ahead of time when the napkin from our utensils is STILL there? It's stupid.
54. When a server asks you for help. No one should ask this. Once, at a Red Robin, a waiter asked me and my husband to grab the drinks off the tray. I couldn't believe that shit. I went along with it, but reported that crap to the manager. If you don't want to the work for the tip, don't be a server. Not my job. Another time, I was with my husband and my parents at a mexican restaurant. Our waitress gave me the appetizer plates to put in front of each person. Needless to say, these servers did NOT get good tips. I am not there to help you. This one is similar to #20, but in some different ways. You want me to help you, then you don't want 20% for sure, you want 10% or less is what you want. You aren't willing to do the amount of work for the money that is NORMAL stuff like placing appetizer plates in front of customers and putting a tray down to give soft drinks yourself off the tray, then you need not be a server if you aren't willing to put in the WORK for the job.
55. Giving you the BEFORE DISCOUNTED check and/or circling the original amount or even circling "Please tip your server" or circling the tip scale on the receipt. That's just like asking for a tip in a different manner. When servers do that shit, I tip much less. You want to make sure we tip on the before the discount without letting US FULLY make OUR OWN DECISION and NO INFLUENCE FROM OUR SERVER in ANY WAY, SHAPE, OR FORM! We should not receive a check that is before a coupon. I literally had a waitress write on the original check "BEFORE COUPON." Seriously, you do that fucking shit, you won't get a good tip. DO NOT TRY TO INFLUENCE YOUR TIP! Your job is to do a good job and let the **CUSTOMER** 100% DECIDE what you get without you telling them in a way what to tip on or how much to tip. I recently had a waitress circle "Please tip your server." Needless to say she received less money. DO NOT TELL YOUR CUSTOMER HOW TO TIP! Doing that pisses them off! WE KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING! It's RUDE! Circling the tip scale is VERY RUDE! People can read.
56. Servers that don't put in your order because they are putting cleaning up or objects ahead of your order. We have had servers put a tv on before putting in our orders. When you don't make your customer #1, WHY should they make your tip #1??? I had this last year where at a mexican restaurant our waitress(me and my husband's) took our food orders and because it was around opening time, the tv hadn't been put on as it should have been before they opened. Well, instead of heading to the computer, she fucking puts a FUCKING TV AHEAD of OUR HUNGRY SELVES. Needless to say we stiffed her. You can't put a fucking tv ahead of hungry customers. Servers complain all the fucking time on the internet and in restaurants that they can't control how long you wait for your food, YET, I see shit like this happen at times. First off, that tv should have been on BEFORE we walked in the door since we went in at 11:00a.m. and there was no hostess. Then, when we got seated, they had to get menus out the back and then I saw a hostess bring menus to the couple that had just walked in after us that was in another server's section. So they received menus BEFORE we did. This is kind of similar to #9, but the difference here is, these are things that can wait. Bussing a table can wait as well and putting in our order should come first. Once, we were at a Fox and Hound, we were this waitress's only table and the computer was in the dining area. After taking our food orders, she went straight to wiping a table down. I couldn't FATHOM doing that to another human being. Another time at Chili's, same shit. We walked in first at Chili's, another couple sat right after us at the next booth right next to us. Our waitress greeted us very quickly and we ordered our 2 soft drinks. Our waitress goes to buss a booth across from us instead of getting our drinks or even greeting the table next to us even. It's just INHUMAN how servers are to others. As if they were the customer, they sure wouldn't appreciate purposely delaying their food and drinks when they are hungry and thirsty. They also wouldn't want their time delayed either as they have other things to do too, not just be in the restaurant. Also, servers that do this are stupid in that if we stay longer, the less tips they make as new customers can't be seated where we are. The tv one really got to me, because that's not important at all in a mexican restaurant especially. I mean she could have gone to the computer and put our orders in, THEN came to put the tv on. It's so INHUMAN to PURPOSELY DELAY someone from getting their food and drinks. It's just so MEAN, IT'S SOOO FUCKING MEAN! I just can't believe people can live with themselves doing this to others? I NEVER did that when I worked at a donut shop/diner back between 1998-2002 off and on a little over 2yrs worth that I ALWAYS put my customers first and NOT cleaning up or restocking or playing around. I ALWAYS made sure my customer's time was taken care of first since I know I hate it when people do that shit to me. Another example is at McDonald's, even if I wasn't tipping, my husband and I stood waiting to order while we saw the cashier stacking bags. If my husband wasn't there, I would have told her something saying "You can do that later, can you please take my order." Seriously, WHY are servers so FUCKING ASS INCONSIDERATE and then expect US to be CONSIDERATE TOWARDS THEM when they taking up OUR TIME UNNECESSARILY whether it's doodling on the check, asking how we are doing at the greeting, to putting a tv on before putting in an order, to cleaning up BEFORE doing a task, to even not fixing a mistake when it happens and ignoring the customer, to not apologizing for their mistakes, etc.??
57. Servers that say "I will get you another coke" rather than asking you. (This one is similar to #4)
I am just tired of servers acting like THEY ARE THE BOSS! NO, WE ARE THE BOSS telling you how we want our service to go for OUR TIP MONEY, NOT YOURS! We are the customers. It's called CUSTOMER SERVICE, NOT SERVER SERVICE for a REAL REASON!
58. Servers that have not returned the customer copy of a credit card receipt.
I recently had a waitress tell me she keeps it because some idiot customers leave with the merchant copy. I was so hurt by the fact that she made me on purpose wait longer to leave the restaurant. It's SO SELFISH! You can't LEGALLY do this! The copy has "CUSTOMER" so by not returning it, that's just wrong. It's not hers to take. The manager told me as long as there is a "SIGNED" copy, doesn't matter which copy there is. That's how dumb this waitress was. Needless to say she got a big fat zero tip for making me wait longer to leave all because she was ONLY CONCERNED with HER TIP! VERY SELFISH!
